Rewiring Your Mind: Reclaiming the Parts of You They Told You to Hide
Rewiring Your Mind: Reclaiming the Parts of You They Told You to Hide
From the moment we’re old enough to take up space, the world starts programming us.
“Don’t be too loud.”
“Be more modest.”
“Don’t wear that.”
“Stop being so full of yourself.”
And underneath every one of those statements is a quieter message: shrink.
Shrink your power. Shrink your voice. Shrink your dreams.
But here’s the truth, babe: the parts of you they told you to tone down are usually the exact parts that make you iconic.
🧠 The Programming We Inherited
We’ve been trained to be “good girls.”
To be pleasant. Appropriate. Acceptable.
But when we internalize these messages long enough, they start to run in the background like old software:
“I’m too much.”
“I should tone it down.”
“I don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable.”
This isn’t who you are — this is conditioning.
And the good news? Conditioning can be rewired.
🔥 Reclaiming What’s Yours
Every time you catch yourself apologizing for your magic, remember:
Too extra is exactly what makes you unforgettable.
Too loud is the sound of a woman who refuses to be silenced.
Too bold is how revolutions start.
When we dim ourselves, we don’t just protect others’ comfort — we sacrifice our own power.
And you? You weren’t born to be palatable. You were born to be iconic.
🪄 Rewiring the Narrative
Rewiring your brain isn’t about becoming someone else. It’s about unlearning everything you were told to be.
Here’s where to start:
Notice the script. When that “be smaller” thought shows up, catch it. Don’t let it blend in.
Name the lie. That voice isn’t yours — it’s inherited. It’s cultural conditioning, not truth.
Reclaim the power. Speak the opposite out loud. “I am safe to shine. I am allowed to be seen.”
Embody it. Put on the dress. Say the thing. Take up the damn space.
Rewiring isn’t just mental — it’s physical. It’s energetic. It’s spiritual.
👑 This Is Your Permission Slip
You don’t need to be modest to be worthy.
You don’t need to dim your shine to be loved.
You don’t need to play small to make others comfortable.
The world doesn’t need more quiet, careful women. It needs you — loud, extra, radiant, fully expressed.
This is your moment to rewrite the script. To stop shrinking. To rise.
You were never too much.
They were just not ready.
And that’s not your problem, babe. That’s your power. 👑✨
